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i am my own definition of a man.
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Anonymous asked:

I am seeking advice for a potential relationship. I am confused. My "friend" and I do things that people in relationships do, but I am bothered by words such as "boyfriend," "girlfriend," "relationship," etc. I could be denying that I am in a relationship, but I know I am not in one because I did not confirm to my "friend" that I am his other half. I am not sure if I want to confirm this relationship because I don't think it will work out due to lack of communication. What is your advice?

roger radcliffe answered:

if you want it badly enough and wouldn’t want someone else to snatch this other person from you, then i would put a label on it just so you both know what you’re in this relationship for.

you’ll never understand
 1304 14th May 2012

Anonymous asked:

Have u ever topped for a virgin bottom:

roger radcliffe answered:

privacy is key
if he’s a virgin or not
i don’t top and tell 

Anonymous asked:

I wonder why we weren't matched together in another life, at another time? Exactly what I want in a man: )

roger radcliffe answered:

I’m answering all my asks in haikus. 

i have my flaws,
just a boy that likes wood grain
still, very flattered 

 14287 8th May 2012

Anonymous asked:

I feel like you've disappeared lately. There aren't very many posts about you lately, just wanted to say hi and ask how things are?

roger radcliffe answered:

I’m pushing on. That’s all we can do, right?

 450 3rd May 2012